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I think we lack something
Friday, July 17, 2009
Posted by ASWANI
Too early and too opinionated. I think I was. Now, if you remember it very well, I had posted one blog entry titled "This would not have happened to my son". The entry was posted a month's back. Just going back to that blog entry, I had spoken on one major issue - Racism with special reference to a country in general. I had expressed my thoughts on how racism flourished in one of the most developed countries of the world. How people especially from India were racially abused. Now just a day back, I came across another interesting article posted on one of the most popular online Indian portals named "rediff.com" The article was focussed on the same topic but with a twist. I am saying it as a twist because it seemed to take a dig on the Indian students. The article stated that whatever happened in that country had nothing to do with the racism. It is the Indian students themselves only who were to be blamed for any violence which happened over there. Infact, it came out all big from the mouth of one of the country's most prominent Indian-born businessmen. He kept on insisting that students from India certainly lack something when it comes to their behavior in foreign countries. They just don't care and create all kinds of nuisance which is hard to control.
Very shocking indeed! I just couldn't believe it for a moment. To see what others felt about the same, I started reading comments for that article. And while reading, I came across one comment which really shook me from top to bottom.
I am not posting the whole comment. But some important points which may be very disturbing for anyone from India. Listed below are those points which tell a lot about the behavior of Indians in foreign countries -
- They never talk politely (with in themselves, on phone, or to others) they just scream out
- Never walk in the group of 2 they will walk 5-6 in parallel, blocking the bike way (which annoys local people the most, especially in Europe)
- Never bother about the rules in public transport (like seat should be offered to older people, pregnant women, and disabled people when it is meant for them)
- Never gives a smile and say Good Morning (they feel that since they are in foreign country they are on top of world, this is most imp and nothing but b*lls**t)
- Totally disgusting dressing sense (they forget the fact that Shahrukh Khan is seen as a stupid character on screen and he is same in real life)
- Never ever think of interacting with local people, always go out with only Indians
- Always try to pretend by show off (even if they are carrying a second hand or refurbished 2G apple they will pretend that only they have the latest model)
- Always try to show that at least of one of his or her uncle is a bureaucrat or a big politician
- Very lusty look towards white females
LOL :) I don't know how much is the truth in the above points. But if its so then its certainly a food for thought for all of us. Now, how many of you agree to the above points? Have you had any similar experience with anyone in your country? Do they really behave in the same way? Are above points justified by any means? Please have you say!
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July 17, 2009 11:53 AM
Your observations in this post is absolutely correct. I have even more to say. Why just looking only outside India? just look to inside India. Behaviour of school boys, Rickshaw drivers, Suppliers, everywhere....you can see only bad and worse behaviour. Great post and upd$tion
July 17, 2009 11:53 AM
True voice in this blog. If Indians want to make their younger generation ok, then add a subject called " MORAL SCIENCE" irrespective of relegion, and teach students right from the primary school
July 17, 2009 12:53 PM
muzey tou esa koi experience nahi hua auro ka bol nahi sakti.
July 17, 2009 1:06 PM
hey very nice blog
loved it!!!
July 17, 2009 1:57 PM
Thanks Sughanda for your visit and many thanks for the compliment:)
July 17, 2009 1:59 PM
Chalo accha hain...tumne desh ka naam roshan kiya hain..I am proud of you..hehehe :)
July 17, 2009 2:00 PM
Thanks Reetha for the comment. Yes, India is great but people..=-X
July 17, 2009 2:04 PM
Thanks Kris for your first time visit here. Yes, moral science should be made a compulsory subject in schools. I was lucky during my time as we had this subject during those days:)
July 17, 2009 3:45 PM
LOL! So true, some of them are match with people here in my country. I think many of them are usually found in Asia, do you think so?~
July 17, 2009 4:14 PM
Thanks BakkaNekko for your precious comment. Well, I have never been outside my country. Also, the points above are personal opinion of someone who has spent large number of years outside INDIA:-P
July 17, 2009 4:21 PM
Many points you have mentioned about Indians are quite right and we should be ashamed of.
July 17, 2009 4:44 PM
Truly shocking, and for it to still happen during these modern age make a mockery of civilization and happening in that particular country.....what seems to be gravely wrong by just being your ownself? Yr post "I think we lack something" should have been "they lack a lot many things...". The unkindest treatment of it all is getting hit back by your own kind, that businessman. Shame on him.
July 17, 2009 5:35 PM
Yes, we should be ashamed of ourselves. This is not expected from those who are educated at least=-O
July 17, 2009 5:37 PM
Yes, very shocking. Thanks Bro for your comment.
July 17, 2009 9:47 PM
Whew. Yet another one on those racism things... Anyway, let us start with my experience with you:) If every Indian was like you, I am good to go. I can live in your country without problems, lol.
Second. Among other things, I have a SPA (Health and Beauty Salon) in the country I reside. Without B/S, I have a certain amount of clients that are from India (female specially). In no way they are anything close to what was mentioned above. They are polite interesting people and above all, very respectful. In a way, I think that the comments above were made by people who act that way and are do not really understand the matter of being civilized. One should never generalize a specific behavior to be general culture. >:o
July 18, 2009 10:03 AM
Very well said. As its a personal opinion from someone, you cannot blame everyone for the same>:o
July 18, 2009 12:27 PM
this post is really good and i agree with your opinion and thinking!
July 18, 2009 2:07 PM
:)
July 18, 2009 2:12 PM
Wow, and here I thought this is the 21st century, where all people have matured and where the color of our skins weren't an issue anymore. I guess some people are just narrow minded. I pity these people.
July 18, 2009 3:24 PM
Yes, very right>:o
July 18, 2009 9:33 PM
I don't see this behavior in the U.S. I've only encountered kind, gentle-spirited, and friendly Indians. The problem with that quote is that it uses a lot of "Always" and "Never". Whenever someone uses those terms you know they are not correct because no one always does one thing or never does another. The truth is usually found somewhere in the middle.
July 19, 2009 11:27 AM
Thank you sister for such beautiful thoughts about us :)